Did Someone Turn Up The Heat? These Are The 30 Best Porn Sites for Women

Surprise! It’s the 21st century and, yes, women enjoy porn just as much as men do. Getting into the mood can sometimes be tricky, and watching porn can help you tap into the right headspace for, well, getting it on. And hey, there’s nothing wrong with that.

The issue, though, is that while the internet is bursting with all kinds of X-rated content, finding “good” porn that isn’t the stereotypical, male gaze-y stuff is a whole ordeal in and of itself. No one wants to Google “good porn” only to wind up on some weirdo website that is most definitely not good.

Despite the TONS of web pages of porn out there, if you want to engage with something that’s A.) a turn-on, B.) done ethically, C.) realistic, it narrows your pool of potential porn options way TF down. It remains shockingly challenging to find porn where a woman is actually enjoying herself in a realistic way and doesn’t make you feel bad, sad, or just not horny at all. For those of you not wanting to spend time Googling the depths of some page 18 search results, we gotchu. Here’s our editor-approved guide to 30 of the best porn sites for women.

Keep in mind, in order for porn to be totally ethical, it’s probably going to be paid. Just like listening to music on Spotify or buying albums off iTunes, somewhere along the way, the creator deserves a cut of the content they’re making or producing, whether that’s through a membership service or a pay-per-content paywall. But don’t fret! You can still get hot and bothered on a budget. Plenty of sites offer free or reduced rates, and some also offer certain freebies, with a premium price on other stuff. But also, if you can afford it, don’t be afraid to get your wallet out. Doing so helps fund more empowering and realistic porn for women. And maybe best of all, it shows that audiences (hey, that’s you!) really do want better porn for women.

1. Frolicme.com

Cost: $6 for a week-long trial, $13/month, $30 for a single month, or $51 for a year.

Offers: Video, audio, stories, photos

Comprised entirely of exclusive content, FrolicMe offers tasteful erotic porn, films, audio, stories, and photo galleries. If you like more romantic porn that’s high in production value, this is your best bet. FrolicMe was started in 2015 by Anna Richards, who wanted to cater to those who found typical mainstream porn more of a turn-off than a turn-on. The site is also popular for sex therapists to recommend to their clients, as Richards says she gets lots of emails from members who sign up after hearing about it from professionals. Also cool: Richards has sex therapists write guest posts on the site, so you know they’re all about positive sex education in the name of female pleasure.

2. Sssh

Cost: $5 for a two-day membership, $20/month, $55 for three months, or $100 for a yearly membership.

Offers: Movies, VR (no headset required), photos, novels, and stories

Founded by director Angie Rowntree, this ethical porn site is members-only and costs $20 a month, with options for a three-month membership for $55 and a yearly membership of $100. Not sure if you’ll be into it? They also have a $5 two-day trial membership. The site offers original movies that are all ethically made (and have won numerous adult entertainment awards), livestream discussions called MindBrowse, radio, and a virtual world.

3. OnlyFans

Cost: Varies, expect to pay around $8-$15 for most nude creators

Offers: Varies based on each creator

OnlyFans is kind of like an Instagram-with-the-ability-to-see-NSFW content in its feed-based design. You become a “fan” of whichever creators you want to follow and pay whatever their rates are for access to exclusive content that’s paywalled.

Not all content on OnlyFans is NSFW or porn (there are people who don’t do any sex-related content at all on the platform). Your feed will vary based on what people feel comfortable posting, but given that it directly pays creators and allows them a distribution platform, it’s worth mentioning as a more ethical erotica or porn avenue. Another bonus: OnlyFans gives you the ability to interact with creators. So, if you have a question or suggestion for a certain creator you subscribe to, you can just ask — although they might be more likely to respond to any Qs if you’re a paid subscriber or “tip” them.

4. Ersties

Cost: Some content is free, but membership costs $35 for a month, $45 for three months, $84 for six months, or $132 for the year.

Offers: Video, photos (both downloadable and online galleries).

Unlike a lot of porn sites, Ersties leans into the vast difference between mainstream porn for the male gaze and what real female pleasure actually looks like. The site design is cute, cheeky, and a little twee, in a way you’d never see on a mainstream porn site. It’s all women-made and the videos, galleries, and photos all feature real people, not porn models or actors.

5. Quinn

Cost: Free

Offers: Audio

If you’ve ever wanted to experience porn without the visuals, now is your time. Female-founded, audio-only porn sites like Dipsea and Quinn are leading the charge. Quinn is free, and includes categories like “SFW” for when you wanna listen to something hot or mind-provoking without fear of, y’know, totally getting fired. Some of those SFW stories include “Should I date my doorman?” and “Going on a trip with someone you’re dating.”

6. Dipsea

Cost: Free trial, then $9/month or $48/year

Offers: Audio

Dipsea is a female-founded startup and story studio, and the emphasis on storytelling is apparent in their content. The platform promises to always be relatable, feminist, and celebratory of sex in a positive way. Wanna get even more into it? Dipsea also accepts voice actors and writers to contribute to their new content. They have categories for “her and her,” “her and him,” and “her and them” stories as well, offering more inclusivity than a lot of mainstream, traditional porn. The stories range from five to twenty minutes. And did we mention that more than 300 new stories and sessions are added every week?!

7. Lady Cheeky’s Smut for Smarties Tumblr

Cost: Free

Offers: Photos, video, stories

Lady Cheeky’s Smut for Smarties is the most popular Tumblr around. We have a feeling it has something to do with the fact that it’s super hot, but at the same time, it feels classy and smart. There are sexy quotes, black and white photos (v. artsy, so you feel 80 percent less pervy!), and super hot GIFs capturing the exact perfect moments of great sex.

8. Erotic Review

Cost: Free

Offers: Photos, stories

The folks at ERM are committed to “giving sex a good name,” and this site will hook you up with tons of erotic fiction that stimulates all five senses. Because let’s be honest, sometimes watching a whole video can be quite the undertaking. When you want to get lost in more simple but still super steamy stimuli, this platform is a good one to try.

9. Make Love Not Porn

Cost: $5 per video for a 3-week rental

Offers: Videos

In the words of Make Love Not Porn’s founder Cindy Gallop, MNLP is “pro-sex, pro-porn, and pro-knowing the difference.” What makes this site unique is that it features real-life couples having actual sex. The stars of the videos are paid a lot more ethically, too, because the site operates on a video rental model — aka, they see a more direct share of the profit per view. If you’re turned on by seeing people get it on without the acting, this is for you.

10. Literotica.com

Cost: Free

Offers: Photos, video, photos, stories, chat, and audio

OK, so Literotica is a little clunky and hard to navigate, but a ton of people swear by it, mostly for the erotic stories. The good news is that it has everything. Want stories about “erotic hypnosis and mind control”? There are over 3,400 of them. That can also be the bad news. It’s kind of like shopping at TJ Maxx — you have to know what you’re looking for. You might find something super hot that’s totally up your alley, or you might end up reading a story where things get kinda weird. Stories are free, but videos are $6/30 minutes.

11. Sounds of Pleasure

Cost: Free

Offers: Audio

Sounds of Pleasure is a Tumblr featuring nothing but the sounds of sex. Listening to someone having sex is surprisingly intimate. It’s thrilling and voyeuristic all at once, like overhearing something you shouldn’t. SoP has dirty talk — aka audio from people having sex with themselves or others — and JOI (jerk-off instructions). There’s also the 100 to 1 challenge: People try to count backwards while stimulating themselves, which remains hot until you suddenly hear it as people who have a big-time sexual fetish for numbers. Hey, whatever floats your boat.

12. Orgasmic Tips for Girls

Costs: Free

Offers: Audio, video, stories, chat

Orgasmic Tips for Girls is “a blog about sex, masturbation, orgasms, relationships, and body positivity.” But it’s kind of like sitting around with girlfriends, talking about sex, asking questions you can’t ask anywhere else, and sharing the hottest stuff you’ve found. Consider it like Sunday brunch with the gals, just with way more sex.

13. Pornhub (Gay Male Porn Only)

Cost: Free

Offers: Photos, videos, gifs

Yeah, yeah, PornHub is not super great. We know! But skip all the hetero fare with titles like “brunette gets slammed,” the comically fake emoting and way-too-long fingernails, and head straight for the gay male porn. And honestly, there’s no need to feel strange about watching some dude-on-dude action. A lot of women — gay and straight — like to watch men doin’ it because (1) the men are generally kind to each other, (2) they seem to be actually into it, plus, (3) double the penises!

14. Hysterical Literature

Cost: Free

Offers: Video

Maybe this is a personal quirk, like the gay porn thing, but to us, there’s nothing hotter than someone being overcome by lust — and Hysterical Literature is all about that. Artist Clayton Cubitt (yes, this is actually an art project) put together a series of films, each featuring a woman sitting at a table reading a passage from a book of her choice. As she reads, an unseen person under the table stimulates her with a vibrator. As the women get closer and closer to orgasm, they struggle to keep it together. But soon enough, their proper reading of, say, Walt Whitman’s Leaves of Grass becomes an incoherent series of gasps and moans. It’s beautiful, funny, smart, and very, very sexy.

15. Naughty Foreskin

Cost: Free

Offers: Video, photos

Even if you’ve never been into gigantic foreskins or gingers, this is worth checking out because it’s so incredibly fascinating. It’s just one guy — yes, a redhead — with a truly epic foreskin. He never shows his face but he does post videos of himself jerking off. And people — women, men, gay, straight, trans — are, like, in love with that dick of his. Anonymous, for example, wrote, “Fuck! I wanna marry your dick, your dick is just perfection its superior, love it :)” It’s bizarre and totally niche, but it’s also totally compelling.

16. XConfessions

Cost: $19.95/month, but you can watch two films with a free trial.

Offers: Video

Each month, filmmaker Erika Lust takes two reader-submitted fantasies and turns them into short erotic films. Since women are picking the topics, they really are “what women want” and cover everything from Mad Men porn to IKEA-themed sex (oh, yeah). All of it’s lusciously filmed with gorgeous locales and good-looking (but not porny-looking) fuckers and fuckees. Plus, this is not especially arousing or anything, but Lust employs a bunch of women behind the scenes, treats her actors well, is a big feminist, etc. It’s kind of like the porn version of fair-trade coffee.

17. Beautiful Agony

Cost: $14.95/ month, but there are free previews.

Offers: Video

The main page for Beautiful Agony, an artsy site from the Netherlands, is full of thumbnail shots of people making their “O” face. That alone isn’t so great, but a click on each one reveals a video showing just that person’s face as they ride toward, then through le petite mort, French for “little death” or orgasm. It feels super intimate and hits your sexual brain from a whole different angle.

18. Good Vibrations After Dark

Cost: about $5–9 to stream a video, $10 or so to stream and download, or pay by the minute ($5.95/30 minutes).

Offers: Video

The venerable San Francisco sex toy store is known for sex-positivity for all women — straight and LGBTQ — and their selection of content reflects this philosophy. There are all kinds of niche choices to pick from, including how-to videos, vintage porn, feminist porn, queer porn, and the beautifully named category “All Sex-No Plot.”

19. I Feel Myself

Cost: $29.95/month, with a few free videos.

Offers: Videos

IFM has more than 300 videos of women making themselves come in a variety of ways. It could be objectifying and/or anti-feminist, but somehow it feels empowering — partially because the women submit the videos themselves and partly because they have clit-rubbing, sometimes not-super-over-the-top orgasms, just like most women actually have IRL. (If you’d prefer to watch wanking dudes, try Stroke That Dick. Super sexy!)

20. Kink.com

Cost: Videos about $10

Offers: Videos

If you’re into kink, you probably already know about Kink.com, but if you’re a beginner, it’s a good place to start. It’s sort of like a Big Box store for BSDM, fetishes, and other kinks — whatever you’re into, they’ll probably have what you want. And, let’s be honest, other things you didn’t know you wanted may end up in your cart as well.

21. Bright Desire

Cost: $19.95/first month, $9.95 thereafter. Or individual video-on-demand for around $16–20 for seven days.

Offers: Videos

Bright Desire bills itself as “smart porn for men and women.” Don’t worry, there’s still plenty of boning in their collection of films, short scenes, and clips. There’s just better cinematography and a bit of backstory. Like this from Instructed: “Pandora Blake arrives at a hotel room, expecting to see her lover, D. Instead, she finds a letter bearing explicit instructions as to what she should do to prepare herself for him.” Oh, yeah. We are definitely listening.

22. Pink Label TV

Cost: $7.99–14.99 for video rental

Pink Label is the equivalent to a college town’s organic co-op — everything is “ethical,” inclusive, and a little expensive. Ethical also means fair compensation for workers, safer sex, and consent all around. Pink Label offers a showcase for quality indie filmmakers, like Pink & White Productions, who specialize in “blurred gender lines and fluid sexualities.” Slide on a bit of patchouli lube, and you’re good to go. (Unless patchouli lube would cause irritation, then do nothing of the kind.)

23. A Four-Chambered Heart

Cost: Films cost a donation

Offers: Photos, video

This content is super artsy, with gorgeous stills and sexy films with names like Alchemy, Flux, or The Renascence (note the delightfully cerebral Edna St. Vincent Millay spelling.) The “cinema” section (see also: artsy AF) has similarly highbrow fare (but don’t worry, still oh-so-hot) like The Decadence. Basically, you get five people completely losing it while all having attractively filmed sex together. Sign us up, plz!

24. Archive of Our Own

Cost: Free

Offers: Stories

Want to read about your favorite characters getting it on six ways to Sunday? Well, now you can. John/Sherlock? Steve Rogers/Tony Stark? A Transformer, doing…whatever it is they do? AO3 has high-quality fan fiction (not an oxymoron) and plenty of it. Ask a bookworm about how many fics they’ve bookmarked on the site, and they’ll think you’re looking into their very soul.

25. Slipshine aka OrgyMania.net

Cost: Free

Offers: Stories

If you’re the type of person who needs to make sure your porn is totally in the clear sexism and ethics-wise, cartoons are the way to go. Even if it’s Hitler in a boxing match with Trump or whatever, no actual crazed dictators are exploited because, comics. Not real. (If you want to start with a free site, try Oglaf. Bonus: written by a woman.) Plus, Oglaf and Slipshine are both openly sex-positive and supportive of all genders, orientations, and ethnicities.

26. The Crash Pad

Cost: $9.99–$25/month

Offers: Videos

Say it with us: There’s no reason being queer should limit your porn options. We’ve all seen what a male-centered worldview can do in the world of erotica. Boobs are jiggling everywhere, and orgasms don’t sound at all like they do IRL (why is that a thing, btw?). Whether you’re into femme on femme action or you’re looking for more trans representation in the ~sexy content~ you consume, The Crash Pad offers an authentic take on queer sexuality that is second to none.

27. Dane Jones

Cost: $20–$30/month (with some free content)

Offers: Videos

When you’re not ready to commit to a paid membership but you’d still like to see some quality, female-focused action that isn’t cheesy (and just generally kinda gross), Dane Jones is a destination you definitely want to check out. A lot of the platform’s free content is sensual and romantic in that Bridgerton sorta way. Is there anything better than a porn site that’s super intentional about highlighting sex from a woman’s perspective? We think not.

28. Spit

Cost: $19.65/month

Offers: Videos and photos

Queer folks, this one’s for you! This platform has it all: vids, pics, and even some erotica to really get your engine revving. Consent plays a major part in the content you’ll find on Spit, which is something we’re all about. What’s sexier than a hot-and-heavy sesh in bed (or on the kitchen table)? Asking your partner(s) for their consent before doing the deed. There’s truly no better turn-on. And best of all, this porn brand embraces ethical, intersectional practices so you can feel good in more ways than one.

29. Indie Porn Revolution

Cost: $16.67–$20/month

Offers: Videos

There’s no such thing as too much diversity, um, anywhere, but that’s especially true when it comes to the porn we watch. More body types, please! More ethnicities and cultural backgrounds represented, please! Indie Porn Revolution understands the importance of showcasing the wide spectrum of sexual enjoyment, often featuring folks who may not always get their time in the spotlight. Inclusive and pleasure-inducing? It’s pretty much the best of both worlds.

30. Lust Cinema

Cost: $16.66–$34.95/month

Offers: Videos

Tired of the male gaze dominating literally everything? Lust Cinema is the place for you. Founded by filmmaker Erika Lust, this platform features content mostly filmed by female directors. There are plenty of steamy vids to choose from, and if you’re feeling particularly inspired (aka horny), you can submit your own viewer “confessions.” These may then be used in videos for the site’s aforementioned XConfessions series. Now that’s what we call quality user-generated content.

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