Girl of my dreams is moving to Ireland — can our relationship still work?

DEAR DEIDRE: THE girl of my dreams ticks all my boxes except one – she may be moving home to Ireland to look for work.

I’m a guy of 25 and she was a student when we met. We have been dating and everything is great, including the sex. She’s 22.


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She’s finished at university and may travel, or she may look for a job, but she keeps talking about working in Dublin, which is a six-hour trip for me on the ferry.

There is no way she will look for work where my job is based. Am I wasting time and money investing in this relationship?

DEIDRE SAYS: Relationships can’t be organised like career plans. If your love together is strong enough, you will find a way to be with each other.

Whether she travels or looks for work, you are still young enough to manage being apart and to plan your free time for weekends and trips together.

It is much easier to keep in touch via Skype, FaceTime or Zoom now. If you’re right for each other you have every chance to make a relationship work.

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