My friend-with-benefits accuses me of pressurising him now I'm pregnant

I’ve known them all for years. My friend is 30 and I’m 32. We have been meeting for sex as neither of us wants a relationship.

When I found out I was pregnant, he said he’d be there for me. We are having a boy. I keep asking him when he’s going to tell his folks, as I feel they have a right to know, but all he says is, “Stop pressurising me.”

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell him that you understand he didn’t plan to be a father but your baby’s needs come first.

His child deserves to have loving grandparents, so ask him to tell them in time for his arrival. Try to involve your friend in caring for your baby as well as fulfilling his legal obligation to support his child financially.

Find support through Families Need Fathers (, 0300 0300 363).

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