My partner would sooner spend the night on Facebook than in bed with me

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner seems addicted to her phone. She’d sooner spend the night on Facebook than in bed with me.

We’re in our thirties and have a little girl who’s three.


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We do have family time but in the evenings she’s on her phone non-stop. She gets cranky and defensive if I suggest she’s addicted to it.

At first I put the lack of intimacy down to the strains of being new parents, but we only have sex once or twice a year now, and that seems only to keep me happy.

She lies back and it feels so joyless. While she seems happy to go on as we are, I just feel shut out.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your partner she’s risking your relationship and ask her to agree that you both put your phones away at tea-time.

They are addictive and you need to focus on each other. Some sensual massage could awaken her physical responses – my e-leaflet on Massage For Couples explains. 

Make sure you’re doing your share as a dad and partner around the house too.

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