{"id":186191,"date":"2023-08-25T21:39:20","date_gmt":"2023-08-25T21:39:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/?p=186191"},"modified":"2023-08-25T21:39:20","modified_gmt":"2023-08-25T21:39:20","slug":"single-woman-25-shares-why-she-will-not-be-having-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/lifestyle\/single-woman-25-shares-why-she-will-not-be-having-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Single woman, 25, shares why she will not be having children"},"content":{"rendered":"
A single woman has shared the ‘relatable’ reason why she doesn’t want children and why she’s perfectly content being the ‘cool aunt’ in her family.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Bree, from Canada, said now that she’s in her mid-20s everyone always asks if she has any kids and her response is always the same: ‘Absolutely not’.<\/p>\n
The 25-year-old says she doesn’t want children and the responsibility that comes with being a mum, while dads have all the fun.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘I would love to be a parent, I would love to be a dad. I don’t get that choice – I would have to be a mother – and there is no way in hell I would ever wanna be a mother,’\u00a0she said in a TikTok video.<\/p>\n
‘I don’t want the responsibility of being a mother. I want to be the cool parent, I want to have as little responsibility as possible and mothers don’t get that.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Cool aunt and stepmom vibes only #motherhood #feminism #barbiegirl <\/p>\n
Bree said whenever she explains her reasons to someone else she ‘watches the initial confusion on their face’ before they\u00a0acknowledge and understand her wishes.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The video has since gone viral exceeding more than 970,000 views and other women praised Bree for ‘knowing what she wants’.\u00a0<\/p>\n
In the comments she added:\u00a0‘After seeing all the unappreciated invisible effort my mother puts in for us I could not imagine that being my life!’<\/p>\n
Mothers who saw the video ‘immediately’ resonated with what was said.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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‘I am so overwhelmed as a working mother. I am at a point where I might need to stop working because of high daycare fees. But why me and not dad?’ one woman commented.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘I told hubby from the beginning that he would have to be the mum but he didn’t wanted that either. So we stayed child free,’ another wrote.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Another praised Bree and said:\u00a0‘I’m 100 per cent saying this from now on at family gatherings.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Someone else who doesn’t have children added:\u00a0‘I always say ‘I’ll have children when there’s nothing better I want to accomplish first.’<\/p>\n
‘I’m about to be 34, no kids, don’t EVER let anyone change your mind. I love being able to do what I want without having to find a babysitter first,’ another wrote.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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