{"id":186738,"date":"2023-09-08T10:24:01","date_gmt":"2023-09-08T10:24:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/?p=186738"},"modified":"2023-09-08T10:24:01","modified_gmt":"2023-09-08T10:24:01","slug":"i-was-savagely-mum-shamed-slammed-as-selfish-when-my-3-year-old-wet-himself-in-public-but-i-know-im-a-better-parent-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/fashion\/i-was-savagely-mum-shamed-slammed-as-selfish-when-my-3-year-old-wet-himself-in-public-but-i-know-im-a-better-parent-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I was savagely mum-shamed & slammed as selfish when my 3-year-old wet himself in public, but I know I\u2019m a better parent | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

A MUM has recalled how she was savagely mum-shamed for not telling her three-year-old off when he wet himself in public. <\/p>\n

Kelsie explained that she follows a gentle parenting approach with her kids. <\/p>\n


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So when he had an accident, and also "smushed some food into the carpet", she wasn't about to "punish" him like the other person wanted. <\/p>\n

"That person told me they would have whooped my son's a*s but that's just not me," Kelsie said in a video on her TikTok page. <\/p>\n

"They told me I was a 'bad, selfish mum' for not punishing him.<\/p>\n

"My son's only three, him and I have a good vibe with each other. <\/p>\n

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"And when my son had the accident in his pants, I told him 'Hey man, it's ok – accidents happen, but next time can you tell Mummy when you have to pee?'"<\/p>\n

As for the food and the carpet, Kelsie said she made him go over, pick the food up and put it in the rubbish. <\/p>\n

"He got upset and started crying, and I told him to sit down, and once he's done crying, we can talk," she said. <\/p>\n

"So about a minute later he stopped crying, came over to me, sat on my lap and we talked about why we don't do that and why we listen to me.<\/p>\n

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"I taught him the importance of being respectful of someone else's property, and he agreed with me and said he wouldn't do it again."<\/p>\n

And while the same person told Kelsie she was "stupid" for trying to teach her child manners that way, she soon had proof that she wasn't. <\/p>\n

"My son threw a french fry on the ground, went over there to smush it, stopped and then picked it up and threw it in the rubbish," she said. <\/p>\n

"We don't have to beat our children to teach them lessons.<\/p>\n

"Children deserve respect, they don't know what's good or bad, and it's our duty to teach them.<\/p>\n

"Just like what your parents said – treat people how you want to be treated.<\/p>\n

"And I'm not about to treat my three-year-old like he's dirt on the bottom of my shoe."<\/p>\n

People were quick to weigh in on Kelsie's video in the comments section, with one writing: "You're not stupid. <\/p>\n

"Children are humans too, and they have to be taught. You can\u2019t expect a child to know right and wrong without being taught."<\/p>\n

"Yesss!" another added. <\/p>\n

"Love hearing this, you stand your ground momma! I\u2019m with you!"<\/p>\n

As a third commented: "I\u2019m pregnant right now, and honestly this is what I mean when I say I want to communicate with my future child."<\/p>\n

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"Why does everyone always want to punish a baby?" someone else questioned. <\/p>\n

"They are learning still."<\/p>\n


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