{"id":187191,"date":"2023-09-20T15:47:41","date_gmt":"2023-09-20T15:47:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/?p=187191"},"modified":"2023-09-20T15:47:41","modified_gmt":"2023-09-20T15:47:41","slug":"youve-been-dating-all-wrong-heres-how-to-put-it-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsneednews.com\/travel\/youve-been-dating-all-wrong-heres-how-to-put-it-right\/","title":{"rendered":"You&apos;ve been dating all wrong! Here&apos;s how to put it right&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>You&#8217;ve been dating all wrong! Relationship expert&#8217;s top tips for the ultimate first date &#8211; from the perfect duration to the one mistake that&#8217;ll kill the conversation<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Expert Jacob Lucas says three hours is &#8216;the perfect time to spend&#8217; on a first date<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>He says pre-booking a cab home is a way to end a date without awkwardness\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a BA first officer &#8211; here I bust the &#8216;myths&#8217; about becoming a pilot<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/09\/75602545-12522809-_The_first_rule_of_dating_is_that_dating_should_be_fun_So_says_r-m-36_1695200372373.jpg\" height=\"416\" width=\"306\"><\/p>\n<p>Relationship expert Jacob Lucas\u00a0has more than 750,000 followers on his TikTok channel &#8216;jacoblucas101&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Dating is a minefield &#8211; and a first date can often feel particularly incendiary, with those involved usually a bag of nerves, paranoid about saying or doing the wrong thing.<\/p>\n<p>No one knows this better than relationship expert Jacob Lucas, 31. And he&#8217;s here to help.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8216;Her Dating Coach&#8217; author has more than 750,000 followers on his\u00a0TikTok channel &#8216;jacoblucas101&#8217;, and here shares his top tips for making sure a first date is fun, even if you don&#8217;t hit it off with your companion.<\/p>\n<p><span>DURATION\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>How long you spend with your date is &#8216;such an important part of the process&#8217;, according to Lucas, who believes three hours is &#8216;the perfect time to spend&#8217; on a first date.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Three hours gives you enough time to get to know each other,&#8217; he tells MailOnline Travel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;And because the date isn\u2019t too long, you will leave them wanting more, which is great when building attraction.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The dating guru, from Wiltshire, warns that those who stay longer during the initial meeting &#8216;risk the date turning stale&#8217;, but if you leave too soon, your date may think you are not interested in them.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;With the mix of dating nerves and excitement it\u2019s easy to get tired quickly when dating because your social battery runs out faster than when you\u2019re hanging out with friends,&#8217; he says.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;If you spend too long on a date, you may not come across as the best version of yourself, and it may harm your chances of getting a second date.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;However, if the date is too short then it\u2019s very hard to get to know each other. You need time to be able to invest in the conversation with the person you\u2019re dating to see if you are both compatible.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><span>LOCATION<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/15\/75644291-12522809-image-a-45_1695221984183.jpg\" height=\"346\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Lucas recommends a coffee shop or a cocktail bar for the first meeting<\/p>\n<p>Lucas says keeping the date relaxed and casual is key to combatting any first-date nerves.<\/p>\n<p>The dating whizz recommends a coffee shop or a cocktail bar for the first meeting, which he says offer the &#8216;best of both worlds&#8217; whether your date goes well or not.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;These types of dates are great because if you don\u2019t like the person, you will only have to endure the time it takes for you to have one drink and then you can leave in a polite manner,&#8217; he says.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;However, if you like that person and want to continue getting to know them then you can order another drink and go for a nice walk after your coffee. Best of both worlds.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Another key tip from Lucas is to &#8216;always remember to go somewhere public&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>He adds: &#8216;It\u2019s much safer and sets the right tone for you to get to know each other without it feeling too intimate too soon.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Places to avoid on a first date? The cinema, Lucas says, because &#8216;you will both be focused on the film and not each other and it makes it difficult to talk&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>This is also the case for high-energy, activity-based dates, he suggests, which should be saved for a third date &#8216;when you know each other more and can be more playful&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He adds: &#8216;<span>A first date is about the basics and you need a calming, moderate activity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I also recommend avoiding double dates for a first date.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Double dates can be fantastic later down the line but on the first date it can be hard to get to know someone when there are four people in the conversation and makes it a bit too casual.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><span>CONVERSATION<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/16\/75644361-12522809-image-a-46_1695222069794.jpg\" height=\"469\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Lucas suggests &#8216;falling back on your strengths and passions&#8217; if you feel like there could be an awkward silence (file image)<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;A simple way to keep a conversation flowing is by asking open-ended questions and to avoid asking &#8220;yes or no&#8221; questions,&#8217; Lucas says.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;This creates a conversation that can move in many different directions.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>If you are asked a question then &#8216;answer it&#8217;, he assures, adding:\u00a0&#8216;When you feel like you have said your part, ask them a question in return that links back to them about what you have just said.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Sharing another top tip, Lucas suggests &#8216;falling back on your strengths and passions&#8217; if you feel like there could be an awkward silence.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;For example, if you love travelling talk about that,&#8217; he continues. &#8216;Talking about something with passion is contagious and it should inspire them to talk about their interests as well.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><span>HOW TO END IT\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/15\/75642189-12522809-image-a-44_1695219930203.jpg\" height=\"424\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Almost three-quarters of daters (73 per cent) worry about the awkward goodbye at the end of a date and three in five (61 per cent) wish they had a reason to leave,\u00a0according to research commissioned by Uber<\/p>\n<h3>How to sign up to The Mail&#8217;s WhatsApp Channel<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/08\/75383141-12512879-Scan_this_QR_code_and_you_ll_be_taken_to_a_page_to_join_the_chan-a-236_1695194307163.jpg\" height=\"284\" width=\"284\"><\/p>\n<p>Scan this QR code and you&#8217;ll be taken to a page to join the channel<\/p>\n<p>If you are reading this on your <span>mobile web browser or in our Daily Mail app<\/span>\u00a0<span>on <\/span><span>Android <\/span>then\u00a0click on this invite link.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If you are reading this in our <span>Daily Mail app on iOS\u00a0<\/span>&#8211; go to the App Store &gt; download or update WhatsApp &gt; tap the &#8216;Updates&#8217; tab &gt; hit + in the &#8216;Channels&#8217; section &gt; search &#8216;Daily Mail&#8217; &gt; hit + to follow.<\/p>\n<p>If you are reading this on <span>desktop\u00a0<\/span>you can use your phone to scan the QR code and you&#8217;ll be taken to a page to join the Channel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t see Channels in WhatsApp on your device, try updating WhatsApp via your app store. You will then need to close WhatsApp and then open it again.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve joined The Mail&#8217;s channel, <span>make sure you tap the bell icon at the top of the screen to receive notifications<\/span>. (You can always turn them off later).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/08\/75628919-12512879-The_Mail_WhatsApp_Channel_on_iPhone-m-237_1695194319042.jpg\" height=\"1208\" width=\"586\"><\/p>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve joined The Mail&#8217;s channel, make sure you tap the bell icon at the top of the screen to receive notifications\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Almost half of Britons who are actively dating feel more confident and relaxed on a date if they&#8217;ve set a deadline and known when and how they&#8217;ll make their exit, according to research commissioned by Uber.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Almost three-quarters of daters (73 per cent) worry about the awkward goodbye at the end of a date and three in five (61 per cent) wish they had a reason to leave, the findings show.<\/p>\n<p>With this in mind, Lucas recommends pre-booking a ride home before your date as &#8216;a perfect way to end a date without feeling awkward&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>He says: &#8216;Let\u2019s say you have booked a ride home for 9pm, then once the time comes you can leave the date in a way that doesn\u2019t feel awkward, because you have a real reason to leave, and don\u2019t need an excuse.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The relationship expert says having your taxi home pre-arranged with a service like Uber Reserve\u00a0not only ensures you get home safely but can also make you &#8216;feel more confident about your date because you will feel in control and not have to worry about what time you&#8217;re leaving&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The service, which can be ordered via the Uber app, provides scheduled rides up to 90 days in advance with added benefits such as upfront driver assignment, early arrival, a longer 15-minute wait time, and an on-time pickup guarantee.<\/p>\n<p><span>HOW TO END IT EARLY<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/20\/16\/75644715-12522809-image-a-47_1695222548548.jpg\" height=\"410\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>If you feel your date is not going well, &#8216;the number one rule is to leave with good manners&#8217;, Lucas says\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If you feel your date is not going well, &#8216;the number one rule is to leave with good manners&#8217;, Lucas says.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Sometimes people just don\u2019t have a connection and that\u2019s okay,&#8217; he adds. &#8216;However, if someone is rude to you, it doesn\u2019t mean you need to stoop down to their level.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Keep it polite and classy and know that you\u2019ve done your part.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Lucas suggests saying you have lots of work to do when giving your reasons for leaving a date early.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;<span>Not many people will complain about this, because they will have also had moments when they\u2019ve been overwhelmed with work themselves,&#8217; he says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;Plus, it\u2019s polite because you aren\u2019t saying anything negative to or about them.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Another way of drawing things to a close is by saying you have a lift home &#8216;that you have pre-arranged because you have a busy schedule&#8217;, the expert says, adding: &#8216;<\/span><span>Again, your date should be understanding of this, and you won\u2019t come across as rude but just a busy person instead.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>DO&#8217;S AND DON&#8217;TS OF A FIRST DATE<\/h3>\n<p><span>\u00a0DO<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a01. Remember the first rule of dating is that dating should be fun.<\/p>\n<p>2. Consider every date as an opportunity to meet someone new and to have new experiences.<\/p>\n<p>3. Have a curious mind when dating. People love to feel like their date is taking an interest and listening to them.<\/p>\n<p>4. Ask open questions to find out more about your date and to keep the conversation flowing.<\/p>\n<p>5. Go to a coffee shop or a cocktail bar.\u00a0 If you don&#8217;t like the person, you will only have a short time there and if your date goes well, you can order another drink or go for a walk after.<\/p>\n<p>6. Remember to go somewhere public. It&#8217;s much safer and sets the right tone to get to know one another.<\/p>\n<p>7. Pre-book your ride home. This ensures you get home safely and can make you feel more confident about your date.<\/p>\n<p><span>DON&#8217;T<\/span><\/p>\n<p>1. Put too much pressure on yourself, as this takes the fun out of dating.<\/p>\n<p>2. Give up after a bad date. If you don&#8217;t meet the right person straight away, then it&#8217;s okay. If you keep putting yourself out there, then you will eventually meet them.<\/p>\n<p>3. Overstay your welcome and risk the date turning stale. Three hours is the optimum time to spend on a date.<\/p>\n<p>4. Ask &#8216;yes and no&#8217; questions. Instead, ask open questions that create a conversation that can move in many different directions.<\/p>\n<p>5. Go to the cinema. You will be focused on the film and not each other, making it difficult to talk.<\/p>\n<p>6. Organise a high-energy, activity based date. Save this for a third date when you known each other more.<\/p>\n<p>7. Double date. On the first date, it can be hard to get to know someone when there are four people in the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>8. Be rude. 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